Instead of “Sorry” say “Thank you”
Growing up, I knew my place in the world. I said please and thank you, and I apologized for any possible misstep.
Walking through a grocery store, my mom would pull me to the side to let other people pass. As I stepped out of the way, I would lower my head and say, "Sorry."
I didn't want to be a burden. I didn't want to be an inconvenience. I was taught to not take up space.
"Sorry" was my go-to response in many situations.
Sharing tight public spaces and trying not to bump into someone: Sorry.
Making a phone call: Sorry to bother you.
Needing a ride home: Sorry you had to go out of your way.
Causing someone to wait for me: Sorry I took so long.
Showing up late: Sorry I was late.
Not having the answer to a question: Sorry, I don’t know.
Tears rising unexpectedly during a conversation: Sorry that I’m crying.
Recently, my daughter and I were talking about social interactions, and we began exploring the energetics behind our responses. Specifically, we talked about empty apologies that are unnecessary.
Lee Harris Immersion!
Over the past few weeks, I've been immersing myself in the work of Lee Harris.
I listened to his audiobook, The Future Human, to prepare for the July book study in Lafayette. Then I had the opportunity to attend his event, The Oneness Experience, at the Boulder Theater. Together, these experiences left me feeling hopeful, connected, and open to the infinite possibilities before us.
If you're not familiar with Lee Harris, he is an intuitive and channeler from the UK who spent several years living in Boulder, CO. I appreciate his continued connection with our community. Lee’s channeling shares messages from his guides, the Zs, who offer perspectives on personal growth, humanity's evolution, and the energetic shifts occurring around us.